Hahahahahaha...this is one of the funniest topics I've heard brought up for
discussion in a long time. I was listening to the Michael Baisden's Show
recently on Kiss FM...and this was one of the topics of discussion.

I didn't bother calling in, because I know I wouldn't get through. I was
cracking up all afternoon listening to some of the reasons given by the
callers for infidelity.

Why do women cheat??? I heard it all: because they are not being fulfilled;
because my needs aren't being met; because he has someone else, so I got
someone else; because he is not satisfying me emotionally and physically.
Yada Yada Yada...all those were some of the reasons the women were giving
why they were cheating.

The men had me cracking up even more: because she a ho; because she can't be
satisfied and she greedy as hell; because she don't want a 'real' man...blah
blah blah
Oh my gosh I wish y'all had been all able to hear this.

Why do women cheat??? Well, I have no idea why 'women' cheat. How can I
speak for every woman on the planet?
I do know why I cheated. I was young. Yep...that's it. Youth!!!
I didn't understand in my early twenties, that I was way to young to be in a
relatiinship. Yep, I said it. It might be right for others but for me...no
way!!!
Early twenties is for dating...late twenties is for relationships...(stop
rolling your eyes, this is 'my' opinion)...

As for the cheating thing...I would never make an excuse. Why did 'I'
cheat??? Because I could; because I wanted to; because I couldn't get
caught; because I didn't get caught; because I was too young to realize that
instead of cheating I should have just walked away. I figured, he was doing
it...why shouldn't I. Dumb huh???

Now that I am a mature damn near forty year old...I realize no woman should
depend on a man for her happiness. It's unfair to both parties. (No human
should depend on anyone for their happiness, but we talking relationship
terms now)...
If you cannot be happy by yourself...no relationship in the world can make
you happy. Do you!!! Find you!!! Then get involved. Save the drama. If he is
cheating, walk away. Don't compete. If he is not satisfying you emotionally,
find someone with a brain that can stimulate the mental. If he's not
satisfying you physically, teach him...if that don't work, end it...don't
cheat. The physical is 'very' important...(to me anyway)...I am not wasting
my time with someone who can't cause me me to see lightening on a sunny day.

Cheating nuh mek it. Be straight up. Don't put up with a situation just so
you can say you have a man. Don't cheat to get back at a man. That is just
straight up nonsence. Sex is  80% physical for most men; for most women it's
80% emotional. Who stands to get hurt??? And don't let me get into the
diseases...especially the one that you keep like luggage and can't get rid
of...AIDS!!! Be careful...it ain't worth it!!!
Protect yourself!!! It's better sometimes to be alone!!!

I have no problem being single...(yes I do, a lie mi a tell)...however, this
queen is waiting for her King's ship to sail into her harbor...with my luck
to rahtid...when my ship comes in, I'll be at the airport!!!